13 Mayıs 2012 Pazar

Guest Blog: Bethenny Ever After Episode 3

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It was another night of laughs but tears in the end.

First off, I love Dwayne!!! Bethenny's driver is so funny, so hot, and so perfect as a car companion for Bethenny. She says she takes a joke or humor over work and then beats herself up for it, personally I think with your driver it's totally fine. Seriously Dwayne called her a "Pitbull in a skirt", and she definitely is. It's a compliment!! He is HYSTERICAL!!! I'm so glad Bethenny found him because he seriously makes car ride talks on lingerie, baby wipes, hustling, boob sizes a great time and he's always keeping it real "100%" of the time.


Back in Montauk for the annual Skinny Girl party. It seemed like matchmaking was the business and not alcohol. Bethenny pairs Matt her business partner in Skinny Girl Nutritional with Julie's sister Jonnie. "Hot + Hot = Hotter. Hot people like each other." They seem to really hit it off and the next morning when Bethenny asks her if she likes her cards or wants a new hand Jason steps in to say that if he had said that in a group she would have called him a pig. Bethenny explains that there's a lot of arguing or nit picking because they haven't been together long enough to just say "oh my God he's a pain in the ass or oh this is how he is I'll just deal with it". The bickering gives Julie anxiety; it gives all us viewers anxiety as well because we love them together so much that watching them argue is physically painful. But they do love each other and make up and Bethenny tells Dwayne that she tortures herself but Jason is the one who gets tortured. She doesn't know if her career is good for her even though she's good at it because it makes her crazy and stressed. I feel that is life and work and if you are good at something you should run with it and take it far. Bethenny has taken her brand very far and continues to grow; she is a true inspiration to women everywhere.


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Jason and Bethenny do get alone time so they take a boat out and spend the day together. What I want to know is how the hat stayed on Bethenny's head during the boat ride. The brim is flopping around like crazy and never once did she hold on or say "oh I hope my hat doesn’t fly off!" What was it glued down or something?? Everyone else wearing that hat would have lost it or died trying to keep it on.
 
Back to reality, Jason and Bethenny begin the renovations of their new apartment. Bethenny still can not believe that they really are moving into this great apartment that they own. She thinks it is too good to be true that we could buy something and have a place to own and make memories in. "Part of me feels like a baller!" When Jason says "you deserve it mama" Bethenny corrects him by saying "we" it was a nice moment that made me think isn't it great to see that Bethenny is making a conscious effort to include Jason like that.


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She wants the apartment to be something they both love and are both proud of, She's also making a conscious effort to have Jason feel "like his stamp is on our home." She is still all about the closet! "I want a closet I want to be able to see all of my stuff. Maybe not have my shoes on top of my underwear" What woman doesn’t want a huge closet to see all their stuff, a women's best friend may be diamonds but the shoes are a definite very close 2nd best friend. 
The contractor expresses his concerns and admits he is nervous to do a 6 month job in the 3 months Bethenny and Jason have to be out of their current apartment. A little spoiler, Bethenny has revealed the apartment still isn't done, good luck Bethenny!


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Apparently Grandma and Grandpa have come for a visit and they have put Bryn in a sandbox! OMG I even freaked at that one. It's not just sandboxes in Manhattan Bethenny, it is sandboxes anywhere that are like urinals, so gross! However Bethenny decides a little Sangria in the middle of the day for her and Julie is needed, so fun! They have a toast to the "original crew" of just Bethenny and Julie in an apartment. Julie says she misses it a bit because it used to be easier just because it was the two of them. Although she does admit she probably could not have done this job as long as she has because there was never a time when Bethenny did not want to work and now that she has Jason and Bryn she looks forward to weekends and hopes she doesn't hear from Julie. This takes me back when Bethenny and Bryn first arrived in Montauk and she took Bryn out to play in the sprinklers, being mindful it could not be long because Bryn did not have sunscreen on. I can not get enough of Bethenny being a mom. I always thought I could never picture her in the mom role because she is so career minded but it really makes her glow and if she lost everything tomorrow I do not think it would destroy her like it may have a few years ago because she is so happy in her role as a mom and a wife.
 
However being a wife has brought its challenges this season. Dr. Amador brings up the idea of this Relationship Renewal Workshop that he has and explains that the couples have to work together not only as a couple but also as a crew.  They spend hundreds of miles at sea and decisions have to be made and prepare for adversity. He explains it is like preparing for marriage, you have to throw away the idealized images you have to make marriage work and what actually needs to happen to have it work. Bethenny is open minded to going but when she brings it up to Jason he really is not. He is concerned he might not like what Dr. Amador has to say because he thinks everyone can work it out for themselves and does not need therapy and that therapists can say things about you that you may not like to hear. He says, "We are two different people and we look at things differently." Bethenny understands that and assures him she is not trying to change him but he isn't so sure. She says she has made big strides in the areas of money, family, and religion but he also feels he's made similar strides. Her problem is communication and feels that Jason won't communicate with her the same way he does at home. She says he thinks she picks every battle and she's always wrong and he does everything right. Jason thinks an apology is never enough for her she keeps going. She expresses that he always says "omg here we go" at the beginning of a brewing argument making her feel crazy and I can understand that but the simple conversation turned into an argument, "it happens a lot lately."
 
It was another sad ending to a great episode and from watching the previews for next week, it looks like the sad and frustrating times continue.


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